Understanding Loneliness Among University Students

Andini Suci Oktavia1, Kayyisa Azka Mazaya2, Shafwa Alima3, Tatu Zakiyatun Nufus4

Psychology Faculty of UIN Syarif Hidayatullah Jakarta, Indonesia

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Abstract

One of the most common yet often overlooked problems among university students is loneliness. This loneliness

can significantly affect student’ mental health, academic performance, and overall well-being. This research

examines the extent which loneliness occurs at university and the factors that cause it, focusing on the impact of

lack of social interaction, pressure in studying, and the transition to college life. The author argues that the cause

of loneliness is not only the lack of social interaction, but also the difficulties students face in adapting to new

environments, building meaningful relationships, and managing personal expectations. Based on a literature

review and a survey conducted among university students, this paper identifies several key factors that exacerbate

feelings of loneliness, such as environmental changes away from family, difficulties in building social

relationships, high academic demands, and feelings of not conforming to social expectations. It contributes by

demonstrating the importance of addressing loneliness as part of student well-being, as well as providing practical

advice for universities to provide support systems, increase student engagement, and encourage everyone to feel

accepted and valued. The research also calls for more awareness and action to reduce loneliness and improve the

university experience for all students.

Keywords: Loneliness, University, Mental Health, Psychology

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Introduction

Transitioning to university often marks a significant life change for students. This period is characterized by moving away from family and friends, adapting to new academic pressures, and navigating social adjustments in a new environment.

Such transitions can lead to loneliness, which is closely linked to various mental health issues, including depression and anxiety, as well as changes in lifestyle behaviors such as reduced physical activity or poor dietary habits.

Loneliness itself can be classified into two types: emotional and social. Emotional loneliness arises from the absence of close, intimate relationships, such as missing family members or a best friend. Social loneliness, on the other hand, results from a lack of a broader social network, such as feeling excluded from group activities or not having a sense of belonging. These dimensions highlight the multifaceted nature of loneliness, which can significantly impact university students' well-being. Emotional loneliness is more common than social loneliness, perhaps because students have many friends but do not have deep emotional connections. Even though they seem busy and cheerful, not a few students keep a sense of loneliness in the midst of their busyness.

This paper aims to review existing studies on loneliness among college students, offering insights into its causes and consequences. Additionally, it explores practical strategies for educators, counselors, and family life specialists to mitigate loneliness and enhance the well-being of this demographic. By integrating cognitive, emotional, and behavioral approaches, the discussion highlights avenues for prevention and intervention, ultimately fostering healthier social and emotional development. This article will discuss the causes, impacts, and solutions related to loneliness experienced by students.

Discussion

Loneliness is a part of the human condition that affects all ages. These are subjective negative feelings related to a person's experience of poor social relationships. Loneliness is one of the feelings that is often experienced by students, especially those who have just entered the world of lectures. Although many people consider college to be a time full of freedom and opportunities to socialize, the reality is that many students feel deep loneliness. This phenomenon needs serious attention, because it can have a bad impact on the mental and academic well-being of students.

Loneliness can be defined as a feeling of alienation from a group, feeling unloved by those around you, an inability to share personal concerns, and a sense of being different and separated from others nearby (Beck et al., in David G. Myers, 2012). According to Robinson (as cited in Rara Oktaria, 2006), a lonely person feels alienated from their group, experiences a lack of love around them, believes that no one cares about them, feels isolated, and finds it difficult to make friends.

Based on the definitions above, it can be concluded that loneliness is the feeling of being alone and without friends, experiencing emptiness, isolation, boredom, a sense of uselessness, failure, the belief that no one understands them, a lack of love around them, feeling depressed, generally unhappy, and experiencing hopelessness.

Factors that Cause Students to Feel Lonely

Students can feel lonely due to several factors related to major changes in their lives when entering the world of lectures. College is a transitional period in someone's life, where many students are shaping their identity and seeking greater meaning in life. This process can trigger anxiety about self, social relationships, and the future. This sense of anxiety or confusion can cause students to feel alienated from others, even if they are in the middle of a crowd. The process of adapting to a new unfamiliar environment, without direct support from family or close friends, can trigger a sense of loneliness. This feeling can be even more intense when students face difficulties or challenges that they cannot share with people they knew before.

Students who come from areas with very different cultures can feel alienated due to cultural or language gaps. Differences in their way of thinking, values, or daily habits can make them find it difficult to adapt to new friends, which ultimately leads to feelings of loneliness.

When entering the campus world, students are often faced with the fact that they have to start from scratch to build a social network. Although the campus provides many opportunities to meet new people, not all students have adequate social skills or feel comfortable interacting with strangers. The feeling of not having close friends or a group to share with can lead to social isolation.

High academic loads, such as piling up assignments, exams, and tight deadlines, can reduce the time available to socialize. Students are often too focused on studies and other academic activities so they feel isolated from social life. When college students are only focused on academic work, they may feel trapped in a monotonous and lonely routine.

Sometimes, students feel pressured to follow social expectations on campus, such as having a lot of friends, being active in organizations, or having an exciting social life. If students feel they don't meet these standards or have trouble adapting to a particular group, they may feel lonely or unappreciated. These feelings are often exacerbated by social media, which shows a picture of campus life full of excitement and activity, while in reality they feel isolated.

Impact of Loneliness on University Students

Loneliness at university is not just a bad feeling, it can have a significant impact on students' wellbeing. Feelings of loneliness can affect many aspects of students' lives, including their mental, physical and social health.

One of the main impacts of loneliness is on mental health. Students who feel isolated often experience anxiety, depression and stress. They can feel anxious about their future or find it difficult to adapt to campus life. These prolonged feelings of isolation can worsen their emotional state, ultimately affecting their overall quality of life.

In addition, loneliness can also have an impact on physical health. Students who feel lonely tend to neglect their health, such as poor diet, lack of sleep, or lack of physical activity. This can increase the risk of various health problems, such as sleep disorders, high blood pressure, and decreased immune system.

The impact of loneliness can also be seen in academic performance. When students feel isolated, they can lose motivation to study and feel like there is not enough support to face academic challenges. Lack of social interaction with classmates and lack of participation in academic activities can reduce their understanding of course material.

Socially, loneliness can also hinder students' ability to build healthy relationships. Students who feel isolated tend to withdraw and feel less confident to form new relationships, which makes the feeling of loneliness deeper and worsens their social isolation.

On the other hand, loneliness can also undermine their self-confidence. Students who feel unwelcome or unappreciated can begin to doubt their ability to interact with others. Feelings of not having friends or social support can undermine self-confidence, further exacerbating feelings of loneliness.

Loneliness also affects students' emotional lives, causing them to feel sad, frustrated or confused. These feelings can make them feel dissatisfied with their life on campus and even lose hope of improving their situation.

Overall, loneliness at university can have a wide-ranging impact on students' physical and mental health. Therefore, it is important to recognize the symptoms of loneliness and create a supportive environment, so that students can feel more connected and accepted, which will ultimately improve their quality of life and well-being while at university.

Intervention Strategies

Intervention strategies designed to address and mitigate loneliness among university students focus on tackling its root causes and accompanying challenges through targeted solutions. The primary aim is to equip students with tools and opportunities to foster

meaningful relationships while enhancing their emotional and social well-being. These strategies can be categorized into four main types: remedial interventions, preventive interventions, cognitive and behavioral approaches, and technological solutions. Remedial interventions are focused on directly helping students overcome loneliness once it has been identified. These interventions often include individual or group counseling sessions that provide a safe space for students to express their emotions and seek guidance.

Additionally, training in social skills, such as initiating conversations and maintaining friendships, can empower students to build and sustain meaningful relationships. Emotional support provided through peer groups or professional networks also plays a critical role in creating a sense of belonging and reducing feelings of isolation. Preventive interventions aim to address loneliness before it becomes a significant issue.

Universities can implement initiatives such as orientation programs that help new students forge connections early on and feel integrated into the campus community. Workshops promoting mental health awareness can encourage students to prioritize their emotional well-being and seek support when needed. Creating an inclusive campus environment, where students are encouraged to join clubs or participate in social activities, can also foster a sense of community and prevent feelings of social isolation.

Cognitive and behavioral approaches target students' thoughts and behaviors, helping them develop healthier mindsets and coping mechanisms. These strategies may involve reframing negative self-perceptions that can hinder social interactions, managing social anxiety to ease participation in group settings, and teaching relaxation techniques to reduce stress related to social engagement. By addressing internal barriers, these interventions empower students to approach social situations with greater confidence and resilience.

Lastly, technological solutions provide innovative ways to combat loneliness in the digital age. Mental health apps that offer resources for emotional support, mood tracking, and relaxation exercises can be valuable tools for students. Online support groups and virtual platforms enable students to connect with peers facing similar challenges, creating a sense of community regardless of physical proximity. Leveraging technology in these ways can be particularly effective in bridging gaps for students who might otherwise struggle to find support. By combining these varied approaches, universities can create a comprehensive framework to address loneliness and support the overall well-being of their students.

Conclusion

Loneliness in college students is not an issue to be taken lightly, as it can have a serious impact on their mental and academic health. Students who feel isolated or disconnected from others, both physically and emotionally, can face significant challenges in maintaining their mental health.

Loneliness at university can impact many things in a student's life, from health to academic performance. Therefore, it is important to recognize feelings of loneliness and seek support so that students can feel happier and connected to others on campus. It is also important to create positive social support on campus and encourage students to find healthy ways to cope with feelings of loneliness.

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